rammstein619 SG What do girls think of their boyfriends who can't smooch for nuts not even a simple kiss on the cheek? Do you dump them just because lack this aspect in a relationship? Suppose if your boyfriend really loves you a lot and he really sacrifices his time for you , always desires to make you happy , accepts you for what you really are including your flaws etc but it's just that he can't express his love for you in another way by getting physical , would you dump him because of that? He lacks it not because he just can't do it but rather he just needs some time to "adjust" and also being his first time in a relationship as well.... I'm just kinda disturbed by the fact that girls dump their boyfriends because of this.... I hope the people around here could shed some light on this topic.... Cheers
so_what SG i dun tk gals wil dump their bf instantly becoz no intimacy but if time goes, it wil be v weird becoz it shows no differences to platonic frds. Some simple acts is gd for r/s, so perhaps giv urself a little more time
so_what SG Maybe she's not mature enuf...if she really loves u , u wil not dump u becoz of tis...cheer up..i thk stil better than tos horny guys tat always wan sex
dibilo SG wow wow... it seems we are of the same age... why is it that you cant kiss your gf?? i am quite surprised by this... haha maybe you can go read some books on it. good luck!
starblue SG by right, gals wun really mind it, unless you ar emaking her feel insecure by the lack of affection. some girls need to feel loved through such acts... you just have to learn i guess... or find a girl who wun mind it. but i find it rather... strange you are having this problem lah. in my impression, i havent met any guy who finds it hard to kiss his gal. lolz...
smudgey SG well you are not 100% sure this is the reason right? maybe there are some other reasons? maybe she just do not feel the intimacy that couples have,
rammstein619 SG Well I was expecting that kinda answer Everything just happened so fast for me to adapt. I needed time yes , but not in a matter of days but rather in a matter of weeks I guess. My friend mentioned that it might in the genetics and I find true to a certain extent after finding out a little on my family background. Of course I'm not like that when it comes to friendships because I get along with people easily and they find me kinda ammusing in sense....
rammstein619 SG She mentioned in her sms when she broke with me about something with regards to if I had more guts in being able to do this particular thing , she would find me more interesting. I deleted that message but it went something like that.... So it's either I'm just being a boring boyfriend or can't give her that kinda intimacy....
dibilo SG *looks at siggy* "*True love is neither physical nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.* " how true ^_^
Camellias4me SG -oops.. deleted coz read salah- Maybe she felt dat u don't really wan her coz she might haf sense u holding back?
drx SG rammstein619 if your gf really loves you, even if you have sex with other girls in front of her.. she will not run,,, my point is do u really think she loves you at all? or is she after something else ? how long were you 2 together? is she the wild type who goes chiong everyday?
spencer99 SG I think people, guys or gals, have to be patient. One can "learn" to be a good kisser, just need more time and experience.... like the old saying, " when there is a will, there is a way".
